Silent love

A Dad Key of his love to his children

Language of Love of Dad

"I made it into the university!" Said the child. Mom immediately hugged me. Shedding tears of joy, but dad still silent without a voice.

Soon, the Dad asked, "How much needed for get there?''

That Dad. He hard to use the language of love. Dad  speak not with words. But with responsibility,

It not means he does not love or happy. But the reach of love of dad was already a few steps ahead, he was busy to calculate the expense. Dad language through action.

his love, with action

Discretion Dad often short, just

"Study well'' 

"Care your prayers'' 

"Remember allah''

while the Mom be otherwise, the Mom is able to express discretion which is not boring. Nagging, memory and concern can be verbose length.

Mom love expressed and triggered through persuasion, anger and tenderness. However not the Dad, Dad just behind the Mom.

When we are away, dad rarely to contact us but the one mom always contact us. However when investigated the Dad are often reminds Mom to make the call. As the child , we sometimes forget, love is still there even when the Dad is not shown.

Dad sometimes seem harsh and cruel. Let us into the water to learn to swim. we breathless and almost drowning. Then get our hands back. Soon, he let go us back. And do it over and over again

In the distance ,mom say

"Stop, our kids will suffocation"

However dad still being strict, and soon the end we succeed  to swim. Dad train us without tired. We were coached nonstop 

In fact, if most people were worried that harm us, dad is the one really worried about us 

We do not understand the meaning behind the his cruelty, because of the fears's Dad ,he acting that way, cause when he gone one day we can save ourselves

In silent of Dad

When we came home from school carrying excellence examination report, Dad welcomed with casually face. The praise that we expect from him is silent. He examined the report book casually. its look like we do not seem achieve anything

However, our hearts became happy. When dad  tell to the mom and to my sibling that's he proud of me, Really dad have his own way of praise.

When it time to separated, that we have to leave the house to stay in hostels or somewhere far. Dad the one accompany us at the last stop.

We see the Mom's face is starting to cloudy and then shed tears. However dad still calm. Calmly he give his hand and we kiss his hand. Dad turned, The staring of the Mom in the distance with a wave of her hand very wistful, dad continued to look forward, focus on driving, do not seem scratched by separation

However  weeks later Mom leaked a secret. Dad the most often looked out bedrooms and the bed that we have left. Dad Become the one that misses. mom said, he began to mention our favorite foods, began staring at the picture and start calculating about wanting to visit us though the time we go still not long

That is the Dad, the grief and sadness but is not shown. Canvas of his love is not drawn by the colors that can be touched by the eye but can only be read by feel. Love of the Dad no less terrible like the  love from Mom, but Dad are better able to hide it. 

Thank to god with loving your Dad, as long as your Dad is still beside you ...

Artikel ditaip oleh : Zarith Sufiea Binti zol

Sumber artikel : Majalah Solusi (sementara ayah masih ada)

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